The Bride	A wedding is a fairy tale come true, and the Fairy Gothic bride knows it! Cinderella, Sleeping Beauty, Rapunzel, and, of course, Queen Titania are her inspiration. She might have a gown of soft, delicate fabrics like lace, tulle, silk, or satin billowing around her. She might mix elements of various historical styles into her gown. Whatever she chooses, it will be dreamy and sweet. Fairy gothic gowns don't have to be white (altho' clouds of white tulle *do* look quite lovely). The gown might incorporate white as an accent to dark colors, or just stick with dark colors entirely. Lace or tulle can be layered over contrasting colors of satin, velvet can be used for trim, and ribbons can go everywhere.
The Groom	What would a gothic Prince Charming wear? Perhaps a lavishly ruffled poet shirt, slim trousers tucked into tall boots, and maybe a velvet cape to top it all off.
Setting	A Fairy gothic wedding calls for an outdoor setting. Think Midsummer Night's Dream. Maybe a sunset ceremony in a flowering glade, followed by a reception lit by candles and hundreds of tiny white lights. Or a rose garden in the afternoon or an outdoor terrace with a beautiful natural view.
Decorations	Delicate white lights -- either electric or candles -- would cast an ethereal glow. Drape bunches of tulle from the walls and tables, accented with fresh flowers. Trail ivy along the tables, in between place settings.